About Sleep

Babies are born without a night and day rhythm and this means that they do not know that people sleep mostly at night.

A newborn baby sleeps around 16 hours in a 24 hour period, but this will be broken down into sleeps that can last between 20 minutes to 5 hours.

Babies begin to learn to sleep more at night by being exposed to different lighting such as daylight and darkness. It generally takes between 6 and 14 weeks for your baby to develop a pattern where they have a day and night rhythm. Eventually, your baby will start to gradually sleep longer during the night until they are sleeping about 10 to 12 hours.

Babies, toddlers and children require sleep so that they can grow.

To ensure a child’s healthy growth and development, it is important to encourage older children to have a day sleep or rest for as long as possible.

As a person sleeps they move through a series of sleep cycles. Each cycle consists of two types of sleep:

• Non-Rapid Eye Movement (non-REM) often referred to as deep sleep, and
• Rapid Eye Movement (REM) often known as light or dream sleep.

A sleep cycle is the time spent going through both deep and light stages of sleep. At birth, sleep cycles may only last a few minutes but usually, by the time your baby is around 16-weeks of age, a sleep cycle will last about 45 minutes. A young child’s sleep cycle lasts for approximately 60 minutes, while an adult’s sleep cycle lasts about 90 minutes.

One of the key differences between how adults and children sleep is that if something wakes an adult fully they can problem solve, decide what to do next and hopefully settle themselves back to sleep. This is the skill that your baby and child needs to learn. They need to know how to self soothe and settle themselves back to sleep. Whether during the day or night, your child has a series of cycles joined together.  Useful Settling Tips for Parents.

More about Secrets of Good Sleepers.

Your child’s behaviour will often be a guide as to whether or not they are getting enough sleep. Keeping a diary of your child’s feeding, sleeping and wakeful behaviour will help you begin to understand your child’s patterns and track changes and improvements in sleep.

Download a Sleep & Feed Chart.

Controlled Crying

Controlled crying or controlled comforting is one way that is sometimes used to teach children not to cry at night. This stresses babies. It is advisable not to use any method that stresses or distresses babies and young children. Babies develop secure attachments by being responded to when they cry whether it is day time or night time.

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